How to capitalize on the “teachable moment”

October 20, 2016

I See You Working, Coach!

A local Bradenton, Florida youth coach made the most of a “teachable moment” this past weekend. In my community talks around the county, I have been asking parents and coaches in attendance to write me in order to share stories of “the good, the bad, and the ugly” of youth and amateur sports. My emphasis prioritizes the good, but there is much to learn from the bad and ugly as well.

The intent of my Character Loves Company blogs is to be able to highlight coaches in our local communities, as well as across the country who are making a positive difference in the lives of our children by building a stronger foundation in character. As more and more people begin to find out how passionate I am about the topic of character development and the “teachable moments” in sports, many powerful and inspiring stories are being shared with me.

The following story was shared with me by a parent who witnessed the “teachable moment” first hand.

He shared how a local coach, Josh Conn, was coaching a youth baseball team of seven and eight-year-old’s playing this past weekend as GT Bray Recreation Center. While there were countless learning opportunities that inevitably went unnoticed throughout the game, it was during the post-game handshake period that the “teachable moment” was capitalized on.

There was an interaction of disrespect as the young boys were shaking hands. As is often the case, one team was dejected after the loss, while the other was triumphing. One young boy’s hat was purposely knocked off his head and into the dirt by a player on the opposing team.

Coach Josh Conn seized the learning moment for both teams. With the support of the other team’s head coach, Coach Conn brought both teams together and he addressed the issue head on. A “teachable moment” in respect for others leads to a valuable life lesson.

good game-good gameThis seemingly insignificant exchange between young boys at the culmination of a hard-fought game could have been sluffed off as “boys being boys,” despite the blatant disrespect. However, Coach Conn and the other coaches present that day seized the moment and taught their players a valuable life lesson.

I see you working, Coach Conn!

(Coach Josh Conn is an athletic coach at Saint Stephen’s Episcopal School in Bradenton, FL.)

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3 comments… add one
  • Anna Conn Jan 18, 2017, 8:44 am

    Wonderful story. Thanks so much for promoting good sportsmanship and teachable moments!

  • Vicki Courtney Jan 20, 2017, 11:19 am

    I was present the moment Coach Conn arrived on our wonderful planet. His qualities are numerous. I have always enjoyed his playful nature and calm spirit, which helps him to be an effective coach. It is no surprise to me that he teaches children to respect each other during and after play. It is the very essence of who he is. My heart smiles to know that others recognize that as well. (Coach Conn’s mom)

    • Pete Paciorek Jan 21, 2017, 8:45 am

      Thanks for your note Vicki. I was so impressed when I heard how well your son capitalized on the teachable moment with both teams. Many coaches don’t get their real duty as a coach and they would have missed out on this wonderful teaching tool.

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